Trying to stay positive
Date - Monday, May 10, 2010
Timing - 6:57 PM
"Always look on the bright side of life" " The night is always darkest just before the dawn" "Sunshine after the rain"
All this are just examples of phrases used to encourage pple to hold on even when the odds are stacked against you... But is holding on really the better option? A married couple with no communication and even if there is any form of communication, it would be quarreling... Why do they still hold on..? Why dont they choose the simpler option of just signing on the dotted line? I heard from someone that its v difficult for either parties to end a 20/30 year relationship, sometimes whats left is just wanting to have someone to rely on when they`re old... Because kids will grow up and have their own family while the one that really stays with you is your other half.. I dont know why things have turned out this way.. Maybe the seduction of the outside world is getting too much for him or maybe his mental strength is just not strong enough to withstand it... Whenever an argument arise among them, the sentence " This family is gonna be broken/split up" will be mentioned.. But what they didnt realize is the cracks were already formed quite some time ago... It takes far too much more to hold on then to just give up and thats why i`m trying to stay positive about my current situation...
Its the start of another new week.. Time seems to fly when it comes to weekends nowadays.. And the end of weekends signals the start of another new working week.. Its like a routine being repeated week in week out.. Well i guess it wil stay this way all the way till i enlist bah... Quite a number of my frends are enlisting later this mth or in june.. It will be my turn soon i hope.. just wants to get it over and done with asap... Went out to town on sat with kel wanting to shop, but end up only kel got his stuffs.. sat night was spent with the usual pple and we went to jalan besar for dim sum and poker session and xbox session at euson hse till 5am.. Ate mac breakfast and head home to sleep.. Watch football at night and off to bed.. Work have been fun with friendly colleagues and a good boss.. Its more of like mentally tired rather than physically tired after working full shift...
Anyone can give up, it’s the easiest thing in the world to do. But to be able to hold it together when everyone else would understand if you fell apart; that’s true strength. (
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